Friday, May 2, 2008
"You Don't Understand Me..."
I believe this is a common excuse/reason/quote when people feel they are being misunderstood. But to me, no one can truly understand oneself. If there is such a person, there will be no conflict/problem/war/backstabbing/misunderstanding. If one can understand his/her own self, there will be no regret/mistake/doubt/suspicion/misunderstanding.
A individual wants the other person to understand what he/she says/does and the same individual assumes he/she understands the other person's words or actions. Different people have different points of view or opinions on things. Conflicts or misunderstandings will arise from lack of understanding from both parties. Sometimes, worse things might happen. I remember hearing these words a long time back. It marked the end of a friendship.....and a young life. I had always thought I knew him well...
I didn't know today it was a special day till a friend reminded me. Upon thinking about him, I had a lot to type out but it proves hard. They are precious memories and I cherish them. Before anyone has any doubts about their friendships, please think back the good memories you all had. It needs both parties to have mutual understanding to get things going, thus the saying: You need
two hands to clap.
People do change but memories don't.P.S: I'm sorry if today's entry kinda like catch-no-ball...cos I really dunno how to go on typing...haiz...Labels: Life
Posted by Kairyu at 11:11 PM
