Saturday, March 21, 2009
The Call For Fatal Attraction
I know we had it all sorted out but I feel I want to clear up some facts and summarize what we shared.
You definitely can choose who you want to go out with and do whatever you want. But when we tried to ask you out, you had to choose sides. You chose the fun side. And it becomes a norm which seems like you are avoiding us. You did still go out with us due to the reasons that our rest days are the same or there's nothing on on the fun side. No matter how you see it, it's a fact you did abandon us which to us it means we are no longer important to you in a sense.
It becomes clear that the misunderstandings we had is due to that you chose sides. And it appears that you favor the fun side due to the reason you are sick of going out with us. Frankly speaking, it doesn't sound pleasant to know that that was the reason. You said there are differences between the things we and they do but playing pool is a common activity we all do yet you chose the fun side. You never took the initiative to join us or try to invite us.
Is it a problem that I find you for dinner? Is it another when I visit you at the shop or booth? Why can't I?
You admitted there are changes in you and know there are things that you shouldn't say or do. How are you going to prevent similar issues to happen again? You suggested gathering both sides but if you have to choose sides again, which will you choose? It's definitely a dilemma which that's why I have always reminded you not to get too close to them initially. If you want to salvage our friendship, it's time to do and say something rather than just realizing your mistakes.
A song for you...Don't lose your friends in a moment of folly...
It started out as a feeling
Which then grew into a hope
Which then turned into a quiet thought
Which then turned into a quiet word
And then that word grew louder and louder
'Til it was a battle cry
I'll come back
When you call me
No need to say goodbye
Just because everything's changing
Doesn't mean it's never been this way before
All you can do is try to know who your friends are
As you head off to the war
Pick a star on the dark horizon
And follow the light
You'll come back when it's over
No need to say goodbye
You'll come back when it's over
No need to say goodbye
Now we're back to the beginning
It's just a feeling and no one knows yet
But just because they can't feel it too
Doesn't mean that you have to forget
Let your memories grow stronger and stronger
'Til they're before your eyes
You'll come back
When they call you
No need to say goodbye
You'll come back
When they call you
No need to say goodbye
Posted by Kairyu at 11:33 AM
